Christian Parent, Crazy World

Do you know what your family's unique purpose or identity is? Can you and your kids name your family’s core values?  If you feel like a deer in headlights when asked those questions, you aren’t alone. Families are at the heart of God's plan for the world, serving as unique units designed to fulfill His divine purposes. Yet churches often zoom in on assessing individual callings and miss the bigger picture of the family's role. As a result, most parents never discover their family’s unique God given design or purpose. They never consider what their family’s core values might be. In this episode of Christian Parent/Crazy World, host Catherine Segars chats with Derek England, the Executive Director of Family ID. Together, they unpack God’s timeless design for the family and why understanding your family's unique purpose is vitally important. Episode Highlights: Family Identity and Purpose: Catherine and Derek dive into how each family has a distinct place in God's plan. They talk about the importance of establishing core family values that guide everything from daily decisions to long-term goals. From Past to Present: The conversation touches on traditional family roles, modern challenges, and key insights from Nancy Pearcey's book, The Toxic War on Masculinity. Creating Core Values: Derek shares his own family's journey in developing core values, values like being radically protective of quality time and maintaining unwavering integrity. Living Intentionally: Emphasizing the need to be intentional, Derek offers practical advice on defining and living out your family’s unique identity and values. Free Resources for Families: Take advantage of Family ID's free tools and resources, including a family assessment and masterclass, available at family-id.com. These resources are packed with activities, short videos, and worksheets to help you uncover your family's special purpose and core values. When the family is strong, each individual member is strong. Family ID helps parents embark on a journey of intentional family living, equipping them with invaluable tools and wisdom to foster a stronger, more unified family dynamic that glorifies God. Explore the divine importance of family in God's plan and begin your intentional family journey at www.family-id.com. Guest bio: Derek England is the Executive director of Family ID, an organization that is dedicated to transforming families by helping them discover and embrace their family identity, purpose, and direction. Family ID is founded on the belief that every family has a distinct role to play in God’s plan. To equip that plan, Family ID provides a ton of practical tools and resources to guide families in discovering their unique identity, purpose, and core values.   EPISODE RESROURCES: Family ID Family ID Facebook Page Family ID Instagram Page “That the World May Know” with Ray Vander Laan The Toxic War on Masculinity by Nancy Pearcy   EPISODIES REFERENCED: “5 Lies about Motherhood That Most Women Believe” – The Girl Defined Podcast “I don’t want to have kids… I want to pursue my career” – The Girl Defined Podcast   SCRIPTURES REFERENCED: Ephesians 5:25-33 John 17:24 Proverbs 29:18 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Many parents face the dilemma of sending their kids to a secular college or university. These institutions claim to be diverse, equitable, and inclusive, and yet they only present one view on the most salient issues of our day. In this episode, Catherine shares her disconcerting experience at her oldest child's college orientation at a state-funded school. At the student orientation, student leader after student leader after student leader shared their name, their major, and their preferred pronouns. No other political references were made. No other religious beliefs were stated. Yet despite claiming a commitment to rigorous intellectual debate and freedom of thought, this school presented only one view on gender. And while insisting on preparing the next generation to live in the “real world,” university faculty and administrators aren’t even preparing kids to live in their “real bodies.” When Catherine discussed this blatant progressive evangelism on the part of the university with other Christians at the orientation, parents just shrugged this indoctrination off as being “the way it is.” When “the way it is” is harming children, we have to speak up. To lay the foundation for this conversation, Catherine explores perspectives on preferred pronouns from both Christian and secular sources. She highlights: Rosaria Butterfield, a former radical lesbian activist turned Christian, who  underscores the impact of using preferred pronouns and affirming false ideologies. Preferred pronouns aren’t a matter of terminology. They are a matter of ideology. No good can come from affirming a false ideology. The viral cancelled article "Pronouns Are Rohypnol," which sheds light on the perception shifts and safety implications associated with preferred pronouns. The tragic story of Richie Herron, a young man who underwent gender reassignment surgery after being groomed by a gender clinic, who highlights the dangers of promoting gender ideology without recognizing the consequences. These tragic stories begin with a small word—a simple, loving, culturally-approved preferred pronoun. But they end in unfair and unsafe spaces for women and girls, excruciating pain, infertility, butchered bodies, and broken lives. Catherine urges listeners to not remain neutral when it comes to the truth about gender. If our state schools want to claim a standard of diversity, equity, and inclusion, then all views should be represented. They must not claim a DEI standard while practicing uniformity, inequity, and exclusion. The episode culminates with Catherine sharing her open letter to the university, urging them to uphold true diversity by considering all perspectives and challenging the status quo. “A truly valuable education should challenge one’s ideology and deeply held convictions, not acquiesce or coddle. Not show favor or bias. Not proudly promote DEI while practicing ideological uniformity, preference, and exclusion. Not embrace bandwagons or reject them without rigorous consideration.” Christian parents must stand firm in their beliefs, resist pressure to conform to harmful ideologies, and speak up. The next generation won’t hear the truth about who they are if we don’t speak it. EPISODES REFERENCED: Episode 115: Exposing the Lost Landscape of Higher Education (w/ David Richardson) Episode 112: Navigating Tough Conversations about Pronouns with Your Kids (w/ Ryan & Bethany Bomberger) Episode 49: How Does a Committed Church Kid become a Drag Queen? (w/ Blake Howard) Episode 50: How Does a Drag Queen become a Minister of the Gospel? (w/ Blake Howard) EPISODE RESOURCES: “Why I no longer use Preferred Pronouns—and Why You shouldn’t, either” by Rosaria Butterfield The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Conve

We are all assuming something about the nature of reality. Our core assumptions exist because there isn’t definitive proof for any belief system. In this thought-provoking episode, Catherine and her guest, David Richardson, take a deep dive into the core assumptions that shape our beliefs about reality. In his first book Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You, Dave defines the three primary types of assumers: Type I, Type II, and Type III, each with distinct perspectives on the nature of reality. Type I Assumers believe in a materialistic world where only physical matter and energy are considered real and important. This perspective is the foundation for understanding the world through a purely physical lens. Type II Assumers view reality as primarily non-physical, emphasizing beliefs that focus on spiritual or idealistic objectives. This perspective leads to beliefs in spiritual evolution or sociopolitical perfection as driving forces in the universe. Type III Assumers recognize a dual reality where both physical and non-physical aspects coexist, all created by a higher power. This perspective highlights the importance of acknowledging the Creator and creation in shaping one's view of reality. The impact of these core assumptions are vast and explain virtually everything that is going on in our world today, like how extreme progressives are siding with radical Islamists on college campuses. Have you been wondering why that is? If you look at what Islam teaches, it is the opposite of what Progressivism preaches. They are diametrically opposed. Dave explains how such divergent belief systems are finding a kinship on college campuses across the country. Spoiler alert: It has something to do with their underlying assumptions. Dave also shares his critical assumptions test, an invaluable evangelistic tool that helps individuals evaluate a person’s core assumptions and their alignment with reality. This test consists of eight questions that prompt someone to reflect on their beliefs about the nature of reality, the origin of knowledge, and the purpose of human existence. By engaging with this test, you can quickly assess what a person believes and see how their core assumptions affirm or deny reality. Guest bio: David Richardson, author of Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You, is the founder of the Assumptions Institute and its Chief Executive Officer. Prior to founding the Assumptions Institute, Richardson served for 30 years on the staff of Cru, formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ, devoting most of his ministry to university professors. He holds a B.A. degree in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Portland, and an M.A. degree in Theological Studies from the International School of Theology. Richardson also holds an MTh. degree in Applied Theology from the University of Oxford. EPISODE RESOURCES & LINKS: UC Berkeley’s campus is in turmoil. It’s unlike anything in recent memory – Politico (4/21/24) BLM spent at least $12M on luxury properties in LA, Toronto – New York Post (5/17/22) Black Lives Matter Secretly Bought a $6 Million House – New York Mag: Intelligencer ((4/4/22) Jennifer Fulwiler Testimony - From Atheist to A Daughter of God – Godstrong Faith SCRIPTURE PASSAGES REFERENCED: Gen. 11 – The Tower of Babel Rom. 7:18 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Does the concept of worldview have a fatal flaw baked into the premise? Could the Christian worldview possibly be leading kids away from the faith? David Richardson, author of Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You, reveals the shocking origin of this term and challenges the way it is used by almost everyone in our culture. There is an inherent flaw in the term “worldview” that we need to be aware of, and we need to make sure our kids don’t fall for it. Those of us who profess a Biblical worldview recognize the underlying concept of absolute truth. However, inherent in the term “worldview” is the idea that the way each individual person views the world is where truth is found. Reality is defined by what we perceive. It is defined by our senses. It is defined by the worldview glasses we choose to put on. So, in other words, reality is defined by our worldview and our worldview is what we choose for it to be. That makes truth subjective, even if our particular worldview maintains that truth is universal. We have to realize that subjectivity is baked into how most people use the term worldview. We’re not on the same page. We’re not even in the same universe. In this episode, Catherine and Dave dive into the origins of the term worldview, which was a concept coined by the German Philosopher Immanuel Kant. Then Dave encourages parents to adopt a more nuanced and effective approach based on assumptions rather than rigid and subjective worldviews.  Looking ahead, the podcast promises to delve deeper into the three primary assumption types and their implications for navigating diverse beliefs and perspectives. By equipping parents with a fresh way to engage with differing worldviews, the upcoming episode aims to empower listeners to guide their children's faith journey with clarity and understanding. Guest bio: David Richardson is the founder of the Assumptions Institute and its Chief Executive Officer. Prior to founding the Assumptions Institute, Richardson served for 30 years on the staff of Cru, formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ, devoting most of his ministry to university professors. He holds a B.A. degree in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Portland, and an M.A. degree in Theological Studies from the International School of Theology. Richardson also holds an MTh. degree in Applied Theology from the University of Oxford. His dissertation, “Accepting Christian Faith in the Academy” was an important exploratory study of the religious attitudes and beliefs of university professors and how to reach them for Christ. He understands education and educators very well. Richardson’s first book, Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You released from Clovercroft Publishing. Dave's Website: Learn to Discern EPISODE RESOURCES & LINKS: Barna Research: American Worldview Inventory 2024 (Release 3) - Explaining America’s 40-Year Drop in Biblical Worldview- And How to Reverse that Decline Barna Research: American Worldview Inventory 2024 (Release 2) - Millions of Americans Embrace Common Unbiblical Perspectives, Survey Shows Barna Research, American Worldview Inventory 2024 Release 1) - America Needs Spiritual Renewal More than a Political Majority Barna Research: “Emerging Gen Z May Deliver Huge Blow to Religion in U.S.” (6/8/18) Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Philosophy Professor Peter Boghossian notoriously claimed that “faith is a cognitive sickness that’s been turned into a moral virtue.” He went on to say that every class is an opportunity to help students lose their faith. When the instructors our kids sit under in higher education come in with an agenda like that, Gen Z’s sharp exodus from the faith makes sense. A child would have to be well prepared to withstand that kind of onslaught to their faith. In this episode of "Christian Parent, Crazy World," Catherine delves into the critical question of how higher education is leading Christian kids away from their faith. Her special guest, David Richardson, brings a unique perspective on the landscape of higher education. With over 32 years of experience working with college and university professors, Dave sheds light on the challenges faced by Christian youth in academic settings. Dave's journey from atheist student to faith in Christ provides a powerful testimony of God's transformative work on college campuses. His insights into the beliefs and attitudes of professors shed light on the disconnect between faith and academia. Catherine and Dave explore the impact of higher education on the youth exodus from Christianity and the role of Christian parents in navigating this challenging terrain. The conversation delves into the importance of connecting faith to real-world issues and the need for Christians to live out their beliefs authentically. Hypocrisy and the lack of a tangible connection between God and academic disciplines are identified as key concerns for atheist and agnostic professors. The episode highlights the historical roots of the formalized discipline of science in Western Christian culture and the role of faith in shaping scientific inquiry. The discussion sets the stage for a deeper exploration of core assumptions that influence belief systems in the next episode. As parents grapple with the decision to send their children to secular institutions, Catherine and Dave offer valuable insights into understanding the challenges faced by Christian youth in higher education. By addressing the disconnect between faith and academia, this episode aims to equip parents with the knowledge and tools to support their children's faith journey in an increasingly secular world. Guest bio: David Richardson is the founder of the Assumptions Institute and its Chief Executive Officer. Prior to founding the Assumptions Institute, Richardson served for 30 years on the staff of Cru, formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ, devoting most of his ministry to university professors. He holds a B.A. degree in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Portland, and an M.A. degree in Theological Studies from the International School of Theology. Richardson also holds an MTh. degree in Applied Theology from the University of Oxford. His dissertation, “Accepting Christian Faith in the Academy” was an important exploratory study of the religious attitudes and beliefs of university professors and how to reach them for Christ. He understands education and educators very well. Richardson’s first book, Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You released from Clovercroft Publishing. EPISODE RESOURCES & LINKS: Dave's Website: Learn to Discern Civil Air Patrol (CAP) 5 Views on Apologetics , Steven B. Cowen editor Expelled: No Evidence Allowed by Ben Stein Ben Stein Interview with Richard Dawkins Barna Research: “Emerging Gen Z May Deliver Huge Blow to Religion in U.S.” (6/8/18) Peter Boghossian interview PragerU: “We Should Burn the University System to the Ground

Ryan Bomberger has been told that he should have never been born, that he doesn’t deserve to live. Repeatedly. Why? Because Ryan was conceived in rape. Less than 1% of pregnancies begin in the violent act of rape. Yet despite this extremely uncommon occurrence, the pro-choice narrative myopically centers around this rare circumstance as a justification for ending an innocent life. But people seldom ask: Is a child conceived in rape less human, less valuable to society? Is he or she less valuable to God? Pro-abortion advocates say that a child conceived in rape is, and some pro-lifers even make that exception as well. Ryan’s remarkable testimony of being conceived in rape but adopted in love serves as a powerful reminder that every life is sacred, valuable, and has purpose—regardless of the circumstances of their conception. Catherine and Ryan also explore the wonderful gift of adoption and the pervasive misconceptions surrounding the pro-life movement by highlighting the comprehensive support provided by pro-life organizations to women facing unplanned pregnancies. These workers provide holistic care before and after birth, offering housing, work opportunities, health care, furniture, baby supplies, childcare classes, and physical and emotional care for moms who don’t have a support system. Their conversation also touches on the book "Pro-Life Kids" authored by Ryan's wife, Bethany, which brilliantly simplifies complex arguments about the value of life for children to comprehend. The book reinforces the idea that every human being, regardless of their circumstances, possesses intrinsic value and dignity. RYAN BOMBERGER’S BIO: Ryan Bomberger, Co-founder and Chief Creative Officer, The Radiance Foundation (www.radiance.life). Ryan has been named “one of the 50 greatest pro-life leaders in the last 50 years” in the book “Legacy of Life.” Author of the book “Not Equal: Civil Rights Gone Wrong” (www.notequalbook.com). Co-author of the children’s books “He is He” (www.HeIsHe.org) and “She is She” (www.SheIsShe.com). To learn more information about Radiance Foundation, visit www.radiance.life Radiance Foundation Social Media Pages: Radiance Facebook Page (@radiancefoundation): facebook.com/radiancefoundation Radiance Twitter Page (@lifehaspurpose): twitter.com/lifehaspurpose Radiance Instagram Page (@radiancefoundation): instagram.com/radiancefoundation Radiance YouTube Page (RadianceFoundation): youtube.com/user/RadianceFoundation EPISODE LINKS: “My Life Has Purpose” Interview with Lila Rose of Live Action “Ryan Bomberger: Woke Culture, Critical Race Theory, and Protecting Life” with ReFOCUS Jim Daly SCRIPTURES REFERENCED: Romans 4:17 Psalm 139 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In our culture, the use of preferred pronouns has become ubiquitous among Gen Zers and beyond. As a parent, you may have noticed this trend and wondered how to approach the subject with your children, especially your younger ones. It's crucial to start having conversations about pronouns and gender identity very young as many schools have embraced an agenda to "break the binary" in kindergarten.  Ryan and Bethany Bomberger, co-founders of the Radiance Foundation, recognize the importance of addressing this issue and have created valuable resources to help parents navigate these conversations. In this episode, the Bombergers share their insights on the topic and discuss their groundbreaking books, She is She and He is He, which aim to reinforce simple, biological truths about gender. Ryan and Bethany emphasize the significance of bridging the gap between personal worldviews and addressing difficult topics with confidence. Episode highlights: The importance of addressing the issue early. The "Break the Binary" initiative in kindergarten. The importance of reinforcing simple biological truths with young children. The rise of the “T” in gender ideology creating a contradiction in the LGBTQ+ community. The dangers of hormone blockers and cross-sex hormones on young individuals. The deceptive nature of the transgender ideology and its impact on society. The role of Planned Parenthood in promoting gender confusion. How parental rights are under assault. Long-term studies on the effects of sex reassignment. Finding freedom in embracing one’s biological gender. The power of love, truth, and faith in guiding children towards their authentic selves . As parents, it is our responsibility to engage in honest, open conversations with our children about the complex issues they face in today's world, including the topics of pronouns and gender identity. By equipping ourselves with the knowledge and resources necessary to navigate these conversations, we can help our children understand the importance of embracing their biological sex and the freedom that comes with living authentically as the individuals God created them to be. Bios: Ryan Bomberger, Co-founder and Chief Creative Officer, The Radiance Foundation (www.radiance.life). Ryan has been named “one of the 50 greatest pro-life leaders in the last 50 years” in the book “Legacy of Life.” Author of the book “Not Equal: Civil Rights Gone Wrong” (www.notequalbook.com). Co-author of the children’s books “He is He” (www.HeIsHe.org) and “She is She” (www.SheIsShe.com). Bethany Bomberger, Co-founder and Executive Director, The Radiance Foundation (www.radiance.life). Author of the book “PRO-LIFE KIDS!” (www.prolifekids.com) as well as co-author of the children’s books “He is He” (www.HeIsHe.org) and “She is She” (www.SheIsShe.com). To learn more information about Radiance Foundation, visit www.radiance.life Radiance Foundation Social Media Pages: Radiance Facebook Page (@radiancefoundation): facebook.com/radiancefoundation Radiance Twitter Page (@lifehaspurpose): twitter.com/lifehaspurpose Radiance Instagram Page (@radiancefoundation): instagram.com/radiancefoundation Radiance YouTube Page (RadianceFoundation): youtube.com/user/RadianceFoundation <a href="https://catherinesegars.com/2024/07/30/navigating-tough-conversations-about-prono

There is a truth to glean from a Pennsylvania field that can save the world. And we will miss it… if we don’t turn our eyes to see and our ears to hear. A lot of us are taking stock of where our country is right now. Our heads are spinning as we have watched these recent heartbreaking events unfold. We are dazed and confused. How do we make sense of it all? In this episode, Catherine breaks down the recent assassination attempt of Donald Trump with a prophetic ear to hear what God is saying through these supernatural events. Throughout Scripture, God speaks symbolically through the events that happen in our world. This is how He communicates, and He hasn’t stopped. We must listen to what He is saying through the crazy events unfolding in our time. He has a lot to say if we will give him our ear. Through a narrative that intertwines political events, civic duties, and the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ, the episode emphasizes the message of salvation and redemption. Catherine  urges listeners to open their ears to God's voice and turn their eyes towards the light of Jesus, highlighting the eternal truth that human leaders cannot save us, but only through accepting Jesus' sacrifice can true salvation be found. Join Catherine as she delves into a profound exploration of spiritual truths amidst the chaos of the modern world. EPISODES &amp; RESOURCES REFERENCED: To receive a FREE list of Scriptures to pray over our nation and a book mark listing our national leaders, subscribe HERE.] Episode 110: How Do We Heal Our Nation: 9 Ways To Unite and Restore 9 Ways We Can Unite and Restore Our Nation (article) "Former fire chief killed at Trump rally hailed as a 'hero,' two more victims identified" (NBC News) SCRIPTURES REFERENCED: Matt. 11:15 Mark 4:9. 23 John 3:16-21 Matthew 13:1-23     Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Against the backdrop of recent troubling events and escalating tensions, Catherine delves into the profound divisions that have permeated society, emphasizing the critical role of faith in bridging these divides. In this timely episode, Catherine offers 9 guidelines to help heal our nation and bring about unity. These guidelines are not only spiritual but also relational, aiming to bridge the divide by the disciplines of prayer and fasting, and then fostering understanding and a shared sense of humanity with these best practices during contentious exchanges.   SPIRITUAL GUIDELINES: Seek God's Perspective: Spend time in God's presence daily, disengaging from the world and engaging with Him to understand His perspective for our nation. Fast Regularly: Set aside longer periods of time to disengage from the world and engage with God through fasting. Prioritize Prayer: Specifically pray for our nation and leaders, seeking God's guidance and protection for them. Pray with Your Children: Model prayer for your children, involving them in praying for the nation and its leaders. Pray Corporately: Join with other believers in your church to pray for the nation, seeking unity and healing together. RELATIONAL GUIDELINES: 6. Challenge Policies, Not People: Focus on discussing policies rather than attacking individuals, respecting differing viewpoints. 7. Respect, Don't Ridicule: Avoid using derogatory labels and show respect towards those with opposing views. 8. Don't Assume a Motive: Refrain from assuming the motives behind someone's political stance, focusing on discussing methods rather than intentions. 9. Focus on Experience, Not Argument: Recognize that personal experiences can be more persuasive than arguments, aiming to share experiences that lead others to God. The episode culminates in a heartfelt prayer for the nation, calling for divine intervention, restoration, and a renewed sense of unity among individuals and communities. Catherine inspires listeners to embrace faith, prayer, and compassion as transformative tools in navigating the challenges of a divided society.   SCRIPTURES REFERENCED: 2 Chronicles 7:14-16 Matthew 5:43-45 Proverbs 22:6 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

If we want our kids to stand strong in their faith, we need to have real answers to some of their hardest questions about God and His Word.Why did God use men to write His book? In this episode, Catherine unpacks this question and the powerful, life-altering answer. The fact that God used anointed men to write the Bible reveals this unmistakable truth: God's works through human beings to accomplish His will here on earth. This means that God wants to use our lives and the lives of our kids to write His story in our own time. This truth gives us incredible hope and purpose. Resources Mentioned in this Episode:Intercessory Prayer: How God Can Use Your Prayers to Move Heaven and Earth by Dutch SheetsBible Verses Discussed in This Episode:2 Chronicles 16:9; Matthew 13:54-58Find Catherine at https://catherinesegars.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.