Annie F. Downs of 'Where Did TJ Go?' on Helping Children Navigate Grief
In this heartfelt episode of Crosswalk Talk, host Michael Foust sits down with author Annie F. Downs to discuss her powerful new children's book, Where Did TJ Go? The book addresses complex themes of grief, child loss, and the hope of heaven through the eyes of a young boy named Sam, who grapples with the loss of his brother, TJ. Annie shares the deeply personal story behind the book, which originated as a gift for her nephew, and discusses the emotional journey that led to its publication.
Key Topics Discussed
- The inspiration behind Where Did TJ Go?
- Annie's family experience with a life-limiting diagnosis and child loss
- The importance of addressing grief and joy simultaneously in children’s literature
- How the book serves as a resource for grieving families and friends
- The community response and impact since the book's release
- Special initiatives, including personalized book plates for families who have lost children
Episode Highlights
- Personal Connection: Annie reveals that the story is based on her sister's family experience and was initially intended for her nephew, Sam.
- Childhood Grief: The book provides a candid and factual approach to discussing death with children, emphasizing the reality of loss while also exploring themes of hope and joy in heaven.
- Community Impact: Since its release, Where Did TJ Go? has been embraced by parents, nonprofits, and healthcare organizations, with many purchasing copies in bulk to support grieving families.
- Personalized Support: Annie offers a unique opportunity for families to have their lost children's names written in book plates, creating a personal connection to the book.
Resources
- Book Purchase: Where Did TJ Go?
- Author Website: Annie F. Downs
Conclusion
Join us for this moving conversation about loss, healing, and the hope that lies beyond. Whether you’re a parent, a friend, or someone seeking to support those navigating grief, this episode is a valuable resource filled with compassion and understanding.
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Michael enjoys popcorn, college football, history, hiking, growing tomatoes, and watching his children play sports. He is a graduate of the University of Tennessee and Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, husband to his amazing wife, Julie, and the father of four super kids.