Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast

Allison, a listener who's torn between her husband and her family of origin, wrote to ask my advice on navigating how to honor her marriage while also honoring her family, as her husband "hates" the family she grew up with. Because of past family trauma, Allison was estranged from her parents when she and her husband married. She has since reconciled with them, but her husband's not on board. Listen as I share relationship advice about how to avoid becoming a defacto mediator between the two. If you've struggled with setting boundaries with family, unforgiveness, or feeling in the middle of spouse and others, this episode is for you.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Learn more about my Thrive Wives group coaching program  Have a relationship question you want me to answer on the show? Submit your question here. **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow, too! **Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Should you divulge every detail of your life to your spouse or keep certain things in the pocket? Let's talk about the importance of openness, trust, and friendship in a healthy marriage. Marriage is a beautiful journey of mutual love, trust, and companionship. However, whether we should tell our spouse everything often looms large. Are secrets always a bad thing? In this episode, you’ll hear insights and actionable tips for building a more intimate and honest relationship with your spouse. Key Takeaways: Oneness: Emphasizing the united front in marriage and the importance of sharing every part of your life with your spouse. Trust and Accountability: Being open about even the small details to build a foundation of trust and avoid potential pitfalls. Volunteering information. Friendship: Developing a deeper friendship with your spouse to enhance the quality of your marriage. Practical Tips: Being proactive in sharing information, rebuilding trust, and communicating effectively even if your marriage is standoffish. Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com. Links Mentioned in this Episode: Learn more about Thrive Wives Group Coaching Check out my YouTube channel for video podcasts and more relationship tips   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow, too! **Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Dating your spouse is oh-so-important, but what if your finances are on the struggle bus? I'm sharing four budget-friendly getaway ideas you'll want to try in your marriage. All of these tips are an invitation to the adventure of consistently dating your spouse . . . for a longer time stint. No money? No problem. Listen as I share some tips on how you can utilize the people in your circle to plan creative ideas for spending time with the one you love.  Want to submit a relationship question for the show? Email or DM me. Links Mentioned in this Episode: Get your FREE Conversation Starters for Couples in Conflict here. Ep. 52 - Making Love Outside the Bedroom  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow, too! **Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Do you ever feel like your relationship is running on a treadmill? Moving, but not really getting anywhere? It’s a common concern, whether it’s in a marriage, a long-standing friendship, or a new romantic relationship. Sometimes, the stagnation can make you question the viability of your connection. But don't worry—your relationship isn’t doomed. In fact, every relationship experiences hills, valleys, peaks, and stop points. In this episode, we’ll explore five reasons your relationship is stuck. We’re also going to dive deep into actionable steps you can take to get things moving again. Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Join our upcoming Thrive Wives Group Coaching  Episode 126 - How to Create a Step-by-Step Vision for Your Marriage **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** And remember to rate and follow the show!Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

It can be a complicated adjustment when a marriage ends in divorce. How soon is too soon to "get out there?" A listener asked if it's too soon to date after divorce and how to know when it's the right time. I share my thoughts on determining the right time and process to dating after divorce, including ensuring the marriage that ended is left in the best condition possible before beginning a new relationship.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Ep. 224 - Releasing the Weight of Relationship Baggage Submit your relationship questions here.  Follow Dana Che on Instagram   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the PodcastSupport the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We’re telling the truth about lying in today’s episode. It's an oxymoron, isn’t it? For most people, lying is a behavior learned in childhood and, unfortunately, carries into adulthood. From telling white lies to avoid minor inconveniences to engaging in more elaborate fabrications to protect ourselves, lying has become an almost reflexive coping mechanism. But make no mistake; lying is a form of betrayal that sows distrust, instability, and insecurity in any relationship. But why do we lie? When we were children, lying often served as a tool to evade punishment or avoid disappointing our parents. This behavior stems from an inherent fear of repercussions and an unrefined sense of protecting ourselves. Interestingly, lying doesn’t stop there. We carry this survival tactic into adulthood, whether to protect ourselves or someone we love or to avoid conflict. We also discuss how lying destroys relationships and tips on rebuilding trust after lying.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Join Our Upcoming Thrive Wives Group Coaching!   Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a 5-star rating and review!Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Do you have a strong-willed child that makes parenting hard at times? Today, a listener wants to know how she can get through to her strong-willed, stubborn child while keeping her love on. I can relate to this mom because all four of my children are strong-willed. My mom says they get it from their mama, but I have no idea what she's talking about. Listen in as I share some helpful encouragement, parenting advice, and resources to help you parents who feel you're on the struggle bus of parenting at times, just trying to love your kids and raise them to be the best they can be.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:  I Hate My Teenage Daughter YouTube Video Get your FREE Conversation Starters for When You're in Conflict Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a 5-star rating and review!Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Have you been around someone or do you struggle with having a critical spirit? We all need to be challenged sometimes, but criticism is rarely ever helpful. What is the difference between criticism and feedback and how can you cultivate an honest, authentic relationship that isn’t conflict-avoidant but one that values kindness even in the “critique?” This conversation will help you to reframe and readdress conflict in a more healthy, helpful way. Key Points: Intention Matters Tone and Specificity Tips for the Criticizing Individual Coping with Criticism Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Ep. 88 - Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse  in Relationships Ep. 86: It’s Not You; It’s Me (I Statements)  Get Your Free Conversation Starters for Couples in Conflict   Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a 5-star rating and review!Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Being misunderstood can be a frustrating reality of a disconnected relationship. When someone hears something you didn't say or doesn't properly understand what you mean, it can wreak havoc on your communication. Today's listener question comes from a woman whose boyfriend consistently misunderstands what she means, especially when in disagreement. He even thinks that to disagree is to disrespect. 👀 Listen in as I share how she can ask better questions to get to the heart of the matter. And remember, Proverbs 18:13 says, "Those who answer before they listen are foolish and disgraceful." Ouch but true.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Take My Online Course: From Conflict to Connection    Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a 5-star rating and review!  Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this episode, we are uncovering gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that distorts reality and causes people to question their perceptions and memories. It’s intense, pervasive, and can wreak havoc in relationships. But fear not, because we explored the roots, manifestation, and impact of gaslighting to help you combat this toxic behavior head-on.  We also debunked the common misconception that gaslighting is just a form of disagreement. It’s not. It’s a manipulative, intentional distortion of reality leading to doubt and confusion in the victim's mind. This is the essence of gaslighting, and recognizing it is the first step to overcoming it. Listen as I share four key tips to avoid or correct gaslighting in a relationship.  Links Mentioned in this Episode: Ep. 266: Triangulation: Are You the Victim, Villain, or Hero in Your Relationship? Ep. 260: Love, Respect, and the Fallacy of Biblical Submission Build a Deeper Connection with my Free "How Connected Are You? Quiz Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a 5-star rating and review!Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.